Welcome to IVF Playbook for Men, a space designed to help fathers (or fathers-to-be) navigate the often complex and emotional journey of IVF. I'm Corey Parchman, a former NFL player and real estate developer. Like many of you, I found myself on this path, searching for answers, insights, and the right words to support my wife, Elisha, as we faced the challenges and triumphs of fertility treatments together. My hope is that this space will serve as a guide for men who are going through or considering IVF, providing the advice, community, and resources I wish I’d had.

The IVF journey can be one of the most challenging experiences in life—filled with unique emotional, physical, and mental hurdles. But as men, we often don’t know where to turn for guidance or how to best support our partners, let alone how to navigate our own emotions. This is why I created The IVF Playbook for Men: to offer practical advice, share personal stories, and build a supportive community of fathers who understand and uplift each other.

What You’ll Find Here

At IVF Playbook for Men, we’ll cover a wide range of topics to help you through every stage of the IVF process. Here’s a taste of what to expect:

• Understanding IVF – Breaking down the science and process of IVF in simple terms, so you know what to expect in each phase.

• Emotional Support – Tips and advice on managing the emotional ups and downs that often come with IVF, for both you and your partner.

• Partnering Through IVF – Guidance on how to be there for your partner through each stage, from appointments and procedures to the anticipation and stress that can come with every doctor’s visit.

• Your Role as a Dad-to-Be – Even before your child is born, there are ways to mentally, emotionally, and physically prepare for fatherhood. Here, you’ll find ways to actively participate in the journey and reflect on your new role.

• Stories and Experiences – I’ll share personal stories from my journey and those of other men who’ve been where you are. These stories bring unique perspectives and can offer reassurance and solidarity.

• Community Resources – We’re building a community, one where dads can ask questions, share experiences, and connect with others who understand the path they’re on.

Why This Matters

As men, we often feel like we need to be strong and steady, yet IVF challenges this in unexpected ways. We might find ourselves feeling anxious, unsure, or even helpless when our role feels more like a bystander than an active participant. IVF Playbook for Men exists to change that, giving you tools to be as involved, supportive, and informed as possible.

Join the Community

If you’re just starting out or deep in the journey, know that you’re not alone. Join us as we create a community of men who support each other, share wisdom, and lift each other up. Connect with us on social media, join our online groups, and share your journey with those who genuinely understand.

Welcome to the IVF Playbook for Men. Here’s to the journey ahead, with all its ups, downs, and everything in between.